How To Get Custody Of My Children
When you are applying to the court, you need to remember that the Judge hearing your case will know nothing about you or your relationship with your children so you need to explain everything to them. Keep a diary of everything that is, and has been, happening relating to your children, including any times you or the other party has had or attempted contact with the children. If relevant you will need to supply the court with school reports, counsellor reports, witness statements, text messages, emails, recordings and photographs.
When preparing your material for the court, you will need to explain the history of your relationship and everything that has happened since the children's birth. You can prepare this material yourself through the Initiating Application for Parenting Orders here. You will need to prepare an Initiating Application, an Affidavit, and a Notice of Risk. When writing your affidavit, you should also consider what you think the other party will say and address that in your material so you can present your best case to the court.
It is important that you speak with a good family solicitor at least once to make sure that you doing the right things and on the right track. It is a good idea to have a lawyer look over your documents before applying to the court, if you draft them yourself, to ensure that you have covered everything and are putting yourself in the best position possible. One of the most common questions we are asked is how domestic violence effects parenting proceedings and you can have a read of our article, How does the Family Court deal with domestic violence? to answer that question.
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On your first court appearance, there are two things that can happen the court will be prepared to hear an interim application or they will adjourn your matter to another day. If the court hears an interim application, this means that they will consider the material that both parties have filed, hear your arguments and make a decision about where the child lives and how the child spends time with the other parent on a temporary basis.
Once you have this temporary parenting order, the matter will then proceed through the court proceedings. The court can appoint an Independent Children's Lawyer (a lawyer to represent the best interests of the child) and they often provide guidance about what should happen. The court also sometimes arrange independent consultants to provide reports to the court on what the child's care arrangements should look like. Have a look at our FAQs, What is a Family Report? for more information on that.
If you proceed through the court system and the other party still will not agree to the custody arrangements that you think are best for your children, your matter will go to a final hearing. This is when you present all your evidence to the Judge, as does the other side, and the Judge will give you both the opportunity to cross-examine the other party except when there is domestic violence. From the end of 2019, unrepresented parties will be unable to cross-examine each other in certain circumstances of domestic violence. Have a look at this information sheet to see if this applies to you.
After your final hearing, the Judge will deliver their decision which will then become a court order. If you do not agree with the decision, you have 28 days to lodge an appeal and have the matter re-heard. You can only do this in certain circumstances so you should obtain legal advice if you wish to appeal a decision of the court.
We are Family Court solicitors who are experienced in providing divorce and separation legal advice in complicated and high risk parenting disputes. We have many years experience in court advocacy and dealing with matters involving complicated parenting disputes including matters that require several Family Reports and involve Independent Children's Lawyers.
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